These are all safer activities. For sexual stimulation of yourself or your partner, you and your partner may choose to use latex gloves,
finger cots, or condoms to reduce the risk of sharing body fluids or in the event of open sores.
While oral sex is considered a lower risk activity there is still some risk or theoretical risk. To make it safer, use a latex condom on a man and a latex square, sheerglyde dam, or plastic wrap (do not use the microwavable kind) on a woman.
It is best not to share sex toys, but if you do, use a new latex condom on the toy each time someone uses it. Wash the toy with bleach and clean it with very hot and soapy water.
Take the time to get to know your partner's body, his/her most sensitive areas, as this can lead to an erotic evening without penetration and with reduced risk of transmission of STDs.
How and where do you like to be touched and would you prefer to tell your partner this or would you have more fun in having these areas discovered? You may find that you learn more than you expected as the discoverer.
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